Lost in Bloom, is about three things: abandoning arrogance, resenting the people we loved, and being scared of growing up. A collection of profound changes and adjustments have happened over the past two years, in all of our lives. Whether it was deep self-reflection on how we treated our friends, relationships ending, or the anxiety of a global pandemic – the years between 19 and 21 were eventful.
The song, “20 Year Dream,” is about being happy for the people you used to love. Accepting that you were standing in the way of their growth—and that they’re better off without you. My favourite lyric is you’ve got your own sense of loving, and it let me down. I wrote this track sitting in a garden in Johannesburg, tipsy from an evening at a rooftop bar in Maboneng. I had just cried after a hard call, recognizing that I was letting so many of the people I love down.
Let’s reflect on how our energy has the power to make others either feel warm and loved, or cold and rejected. Whether it’s actual adolescence or arrested development, a lot of us aren’t conscious enough of our impact and responsibility in the world. It’s such simple things. How you share the good news. How you argue with your significant other. Make space for the people you love to say what they need to say, and be who they need to be.
Lost in Bloom is about a few young men learning that growing up isn’t about ambition, but rather kindness. Thank you for listening.
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